final warning

mum gave me advice and i guess its a final warning...
i like it when she cares. but its not my choice. i am jus caught in between everywhere. what can i do? moreover the dangers are drawing nearer and its gog to be endless. Chinese new year is in 3 weeks time or less last 15 days. that how not to feast? especially her cooking and endless yusheng parties!

mum says i should cut my weight.
contradiction : don't do exercises that needs to run, jump or stretch too much.
what should i do? i oso dun wan to be like that... cut down on eating ... seriously i dun overeat or party everyday... once in a blue moon i get dessert. thats to cheer myself up.

what am i to do?